What I learned from what I've been through. It's pain but It's worth if someone happy..

Hi readers... Well here to share something I learned from what i been through in my life.. Well I lost my boyf not only once haha, But this one is the one I made the really painful decision.. I made him leave me and there's an untold reason. And I was so hurt yet I have to move on and be strong so that he can live happily without feeling guilty or maybe he's not even feeling that ? I will never know. First few days I keep crying and yet I feels that I couldn't make it at all. However, I'm lucky that I have my Friends and my cousin stay by my side when I need them. They comfort me and accompany me all the time. From here I learned to appreciate friends ans family. I'm blessed to have them. About my boyf ... He's a good bf haha yes.. That's why I choose that path. Stupid I know but I never regret. We're not even friends now. Well... May be it's better to be like that.


Life is like that.. You have to fall down and learn to stand up by yourself. It's isn't hard a long you willing to do it. My cousin always give me positive thoughts... You can cry... But after cry you have to be strong and face everything. Every girls afraid of seeing their ex have a new girlfriend after they broke up. But really.. Think twice girls... For what right ? After broke then it's different path. He can have his life.. Why don't you just have yours? You'll feel shame if one day he moved on to another stage of his life but when he turned back to see you, you're still standing at the broke up point. Life goes on ... Live happily and motivated... Be productive everyday. Do things that you like. =) Don't give yourself a chance to feel regret from something you feels like doing but never do. You have to move on until one day you see him have another gf and your reaction is " Is it ? Grats!" with a smile from your heart and really happy for him. Alone or in relationship are the same. You all still have own life to live until get married. He ever said that he love you forever, he only get married to you in future. Whoever in love will say that. Not saying guys but girls too. But when one side changed their mind... Their thoughts... Things will be just different and when you say isn't we promised each other forever love? Get married? Well that will happen to some couples but not all. a 100% chance this will only and confirmed happen in fairy tales. Work hard peeps. Get the one you love and be good to them. Don't betray the one who loves you. Don't cheat on them. Sometimes it's not they don't know but they choose to pretend like they don't know about you cheating behind them. It's not they don't care but they wish  one day you'll remember the promises between you all and back to who you was to them.


For me, I can't say I fully moved on... But I'm leaving it flow naturally. I believe that something isn't belongs to you will leave no matter how hard you hold it. If it' really belong to you, no matter how many peoples he/she together with... At the end still he/she will back to your life and spend the other half of their life with you. Just like my friend, she married her first boyfriend after so many guys she couple with. But don't keep the hope on it. It's not gonna happen on everyone. So just let it flow naturally. Work hard for your future and don't accept any bf or gf just because you're lonely. Accept them after you calm down from broke up and able to accept a new half in your life. And accept them only when you really love them. Life partner is important. However, Love is not only from lovers. But there's friend's love, Family's love too. So appreciate them.. God brought them to your side for some reason..

I will share until here first. Will share more when I'm feeling well. Thanks for reading my post if you are reading now and finished until here =) xoxo.



Noelle